Advice

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Middle Ground

There is a silence in the room; an eerie, lingering void in the air surrounding me and it is holding me still. There is an unknowing, an uncertainty, an unwillingness and a question that I cannot seem to answer. I think they call this the middle ground. I find myself here and although familiar – it remains unrecognizable, […]

Because Love

I have a hard time understanding why I am such a complicated mess. Why the quiet times are my favorite times and the world overwhelms me again and again and again. How can I feel so much so deeply and ponder things so intently when they really don’t have anything to do with my day […]

Another Lesbian Myth

Sometimes, no matter how hard we try, no matter how hard we work, no matter how righteous our intentions – we will surely disappoint others. There will always be the blamers and the seekers and the players – and sometimes – when our hearts are open and our compassion overflowing – sometimes – someone will […]

When Lady Love Knocks

I was killing some time stalking myself on the Facebook and it suddenly occurred to me that my life has really been a roller coaster wild ride the past 5 – 6 years. It almost feels as if I have lived an entire lifetime in this half decade – no wonder I am always ready for a […]

Against All Odds – Living a Purposeful Life

“No pain that we suffer, no trial that we experience is wasted. It ministers to our education, to the development of such qualities as patience, faith, fortitude and humility. All that we suffer and all that we endure, especially when we endure it patiently, builds up our characters, purifies our hearts, and expands our souls…” […]

What You See Is What You Get…Sometimes

We think we know someone.  We hear their words and watch them interact with others and we think we know them.  Or really – the truth is – and more importantly to me – you think they know you.  You are true – constant, honest, open and kind.  You don’t keep secrets or play games […]

Last minute New Years resolutions

  By: Erika Star It’s that time of year again, we’re on the cusp of a new year and it seems that the general consensus in regards to 2014 is GTFO. It’s been a rough year, filled with loss, a polar vortex and more heartbreak than anyone should care to shake a stick at. All was not lost […]

Meet LezBeOnTalk’s Marissa Farina!

Marissa Farina entertains and educates her YouTube audience on LGBT issues through laughter and thought! Once a pair, now a solo act, Marissa has emerged as one of today’s most prominent gay figures within the ever growing world of YouTube. Her videos have attracted over 64,000 subscribers to date with 6.3 million video views and […]

Mirror mirror on the wall – who’s the fairest of them all?

Guz Viewz – The perspective from our Senior Editor and word wrangler, Kathy Guzman. Oh vanity – fucking corrupted interpretation of all that can only be seen with tainted human eyes – how have we allowed ourselves to believe in such delusional reflections? Not only believe – but feel and decide and live and choke […]

Snow Days for Snow-Gays

(And Other Lovers of Queer Amusement) On these long, blustery days in which driving is hazardous and snuggling with fur-babies under warm covers is obligatory, what’s a queer to do all day? I have a few suggestions to help make your snow days profoundly gay. Don your fuzziest robe and curl up with one of […]